A child’s confidence can have a big impact on how they approach friendships, school, challenges and new experiences. Confidence does not mean believing that you are the best at everything; it means feeling secure in yourself and believing that you are capable of learning and growing. Parents, carers and other adults can play an important role in helping children develop this confidence.

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1. Praise effort rather than perfection
Encourage your child by recognising the effort they put into something, rather than focusing only on whether they succeeded. Saying, “You worked really hard on that” helps children understand that mistakes and challenges are part of learning.

“Nurturing a child’s confidence is giving them the courage to try, the resilience to fail, and the belief that they can always rise again.”

2. Celebrate their individual strengths

Every child has different qualities and abilities. Take time to notice and celebrate what makes your child special, whether they are creative, kind, funny, curious, sporty or good at helping others. Helping children recognise their strengths can encourage a positive sense of identity.

3. Give your child responsibility

Allowing children to make age-appropriate choices and take responsibility for small tasks can help them feel capable and independent. This could include tidying their room, helping with dinner or choosing an activity. These small successes can build a sense of achievement.

4. Encourage them to try new things
Trying something unfamiliar can feel scary, particularly when a child is worried about making mistakes. Encourage your child to have a go without expecting them to be perfect. Remind them that making mistakes is completely normal and that trying something difficult can help them learn.

5. Encourage positive self-talk
Children can sometimes quickly tell themselves, “I can’t do this.” Encourage them to replace this with “I can’t do this yet.” Supporting children to recognise their progress and focus on what they can do can help them develop a more positive attitude towards challenges.